Coca Cola’s pro-father 2020 Christmas Advert will bring a tear to your eye

The best thing about this (2:30) short film is not that it’s a genuinely well-crafted and utterly moving tribute to the lengths that fathers will go to for their children. The best thing about this short film is that a bunch of experts and executives at one of the worlds biggest companies, whose bottom line is what will sell more of their beverage, concluded that promoting a father-positive message was the best way to go. Eyes on their ratio of likes and dislikes (67k to 3.2k) as compared to Gilette’s 2019 anti-male car crash (823k to 1.6m) and be happy!


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The Centre for Social Injustice – radfem site stalking Karen Woodall

My thanks to Julian for alerting me to the activities on this site.

The Centre for Social Injustice promotes anti-father propaganda and unhinged conspiracy theories about the power of “the Christian Right” in modern secular Britain. From the ‘About’  page:

This website shows how everything about the child maintenance reforms, right from the Green Paper itself, was based on lies. It is mainly about child support, but veers off into related territory. I have uncovered some previously unreported information about key individuals in the British Religious Right, which will be of interest to people who are interested in separation of state and religion, the rise of the Religious Right in eastern Europe, Russia and the United States. I’ve also discovered how closely the interests of single mothers and our children are entwined with LGBT rights – both are under attack by the Religious Right, but to different proportions in different places. In the UK it seems that David Cameron willingly sold single mothers down the river to placate the Religious Right, who opposed his legalisation of gay marriage.

A caveat: I hope my theme of Margaret Atwood’s Handmaid’s Tale doesn’t confuse, distract or put off. Hardly anyone I know watched it, but I was horribly gripped. I watched the two series while conducting this investigation into child maintenance, and was intrigued by the misogyny of the commanders’ wives and the Aunts.

Obviously, the sabotage of the child maintenance system and the deliberate impoverishment of single mothers and our children is nowhere near on a par with what happens in The Handmaid’s Tale. But the psychology and ideology beneath it comes from exactly the same place, and I have no doubt that some of the Religious Right would like to take us back to the days of the workhouse and the Poor Law, the Magdalene laundries, and the deportation of our children for hard labour.

The men in this real-life tale of misogyny – Iain Duncan Smith, Tim Loughton, Steve Webb, Nick Woodall, while repellent, are irredeemably boring. But, just as the most villainous and most compelling characters in Margaret Atwoods’ “Handmaid’s Tale” are women, the key figures driving the child maintenance reforms were anti-feminist women, who I find weirdly and horrifyingly fascinating.”

The Centre for Social Injustice makes the claim that withholding child maintenance payments is domestic abuse and that Conservative governments have been complicit in enabling men to abuse women with whom they have children via such methods whilst referring to “bogus parental alienation ideology” on Twitter. Statistically poor outcomes for fatherless children are dismissed on the site with cherry picked examples of people from intact families who’ve committed crimes. It’s clear that in the complex and nuanced situations that arise after family breakdowns, The Centre for Social Injustice is convinced that mothers are significantly disadvantaged as compared to fathers and is committed to perpetuating narratives that emphasise women’s victimhood and subsequent entitlement to special protection and to denying truths that promote the importance of father involvement in their children’s lives.

To recap:

  • Single parent families are nearly twice as likely to be in poverty as those in couple parented families. 
  • Father’s involvement with children is linked to higher educational achievement and occupational mobility, and increases a boy’s chances of escaping poverty in particular* 
  • Father’s involvement is associated with fewer child behavioural problems* 
  • Father’s involvement is associated with lower criminality, 76% of children and young people in custody had an absent father* as compared to the <25% national average. 
  • Father’s involvement is associated with less substance misuse and addiction*. 
  • Greater father involvement is associated with higher levels of self-respect and self-regulation*. 
  • Father absence is associated with earlier sexual activity and teen pregnancy*. 
  • Children with single parents show increased risks of psychiatric disease, suicide, and attempted suicide*.

* See: The Empathy Gap, William Collins, 2019.

The Centre for Social Injustice writes extensively about Karen Woodall and one of the most notable posts links the work of the “therapist, writer, commentator on family separation politics, gender specialist, helper and observer of all things to do with family relationships” to Men’s Rights Activists including: A Voice for Men’s Paul Elam, Families Need Father’s Vincent McGovern and J4MB’s founder, Mike Buchanan. In this post it is claimed that “The Christian Right and the men’s rights movement have found common cause in battling feminism and women’s rights for nearly half a century.” and it is true that those of us who may well be more atheistic and libertarian within the Men’s Human Rights Movement do find ourselves with points of agreement with those on the Christian Right regarding battling against the hate-filled supremacy movement that is feminism and women’s privileges more generally, and it’s a point of pride that we can bridge our moral and philosophical gaps in order to pursue sex equality in our societies. The Christian Right are far more tolerant and compassionate bedfellows than the Ideological Left, that’s for sure!


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Dad Pill with Mark Nevin on Boogaloo Radio

I recently posted about some interesting music that Mark Nevin has been publishing on his YouTube channel. If you’ve stopped to explore his channel to any degree, you’ll have noticed that Nevin is a justifiably proud family man and both of his passions – for music and fatherhood – have come together in a new radio slot he’s taken on with Boogaloo Radio, called Dad Pill. The shows air on Sundays between 12pm and 2pm and can be accessed live through the Boogaloo Radio website and app or listened to later on MixCloud. Nevin plays some great songs, I keep finding new gems when I listen, and he invites guests on to talk about music as well as having and being a dad!

Dad Pill Episode 1.

Dad Pill Episode 2, with sound engineer Phill Brown.

Dad Pill Episode 3, with poet Steve Denehan.

Dad Pill Episode 4, with musician Peter Donegan.

Nevin can be found on Twitter, here.


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Mike Buchanan and I are so proud of the International Conference on Men’s Issues 2020. Thank you to everyone who worked on the event, contributed videos and time and watched the videos. The 130 videos can be found on this playlist on YouTube. The event was a wild ride for us, learning on the fly, and we’re now very tired! So, we’ll be taking a week’s rest & recovery break.

If you want to contact us, we can be reached at elizabeth@j4mb.org.uk and mikebuchananuk@gmail.com

That’s all, folks!


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The Not Woke Poets Society takes on Feminism

 

I’ve recently become aware of this subversive and heterodox organisation whose YouTube channel is full of excellent work that brings poetry up to date with common sense and does it with style and humour.

 

 


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A Fish Needs a Bike – Mark Nevin

 

Mark Nevin is an interesting individual, achieving fame with his work with Fairground Attraction, he has since worked with many impressive names including Kirsty MacColl, Morrissey, Sandy Shaw and Albert Hammond. His songs have been covered many times, by artists including Julio Inglesias, Ringo Starr and David Bowie. Since 1999 he’s been working on a solo career in music and has a prolific output full of great songs including A Fish Needs a Bike (from 2019’s Strike Up the Sally Ann) and his latest release, New World Order.

 

Not only is Mark Nevin a skilled and fascinating songwriter however, if you check out his Twitter profile you’ll find that he’s also a highly interesting man politically…


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The Seven Ages of Man – How to live a meaningful life, James Innes-Smith, due for release

Masculinity has reached a moment of crisis. From the erosion of unifying institutions such as marriage to a rise in male suicide rates, the last century and a half has been a particularly turbulent time to be a man. Increasing numbers of men are finding themselves anchorless, uprooted from the conventions and certainties of their forefathers. Today masculinity itself has come under attack, relentlessly maligned in the media. Now, more than ever, the long and perilous journey from infant to old age is fraught with strange complexities, moral dichotomies and maddening contradictions.

Incisive and solution-driven, The Seven Ages of Man offers men of all ages, and the women who love them, a clear roadmap to a more meaningful life and a better future for all. Part practical guide and part call to arms, it encourages a return to decency, compassion, humility, understanding and forgiveness.”

James Innes-Smith is an interesting and honourable man. He attended the International Conference on Men’s Issues 2018 and wrote a fair review for The Spectator. I also recommend his nostalgic au revoir to Eddie Van Halen, published last month.

‘The Seven Ages of Man’ promises to be a valuable contribution to the literature and discussion around men and masculinity and I look forward to reading it and sharing what I find soon. Pre-order at Amazon who will, by the way, donate to a charity of your choice (The Mankind Initiative is on the list) if you sign up for AmazonSmile at no extra purchase cost.

 


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Major victory in Mark Pearson’s case!

Well done to Mark Pearson and Barnett Survivors for securing “the largest settlement by the British Transport Police in over a decade, and perhaps ever” as recompense for their culpability in implicating Pearson for a crime of which he was clearly innocent. After a gruelling 3 year war of attrition, this is very welcome news. The next target is the CPS! Bon voyage, gentlemen!

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Messages for Men podcast episode 2 – the evolutionary basis of creativity, peacocks and sneaky fuckers

In this episode of the Messages for Men (1:30:43) podcast, Elizabeth & Max speak with evolutionary psychologist Johan Nayar. Armed with his master’s degree from Brunel University and a creative gift for neat analogies, Johan is well-equipped to discuss everything from the evolutionary psychology research on sex differences, the tabula rasa (‘blank slate’) theory and both sides of the Nature versus Nurture debate all the way through to The Google Memo and whether peacocks are being particularly honest.

Find Johan at https://twitter.com/gurushaktv
and
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0x519IUGZ941RLesp8pl7w


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