Sad. An interesting and detailed article, well worth reading in full. Extracts takes up the remainder of this piece:
“A review into the death of a 27-year-old man who took his own life after suffering sustained domestic abuse at the hands of his partner has highlighted concerns that not enough is done to help male victims.
In the report, his family claim he was “treated differently” by agencies intended to help people suffering from domestic abuse because he was a man and that police often took his partner’s side, as she was a woman…
The report recounts how, in March 2023, Val [J4MB: a pseudonym for the dead man, in the report] texted a relative and Kim in the early hours, sending them a video of himself indicating he was going to end his life.
He ended the messages with “goodbye”.
Police officers forced their way into his King’s Lynn home, and found the man sat opposite the front door. Despite the efforts of the emergency services, he could not be revived.
An inquest into his death was held at Norfolk Coroner’s Court last August.
Assistant coroner Christopher Leach did not give a verdict of suicide after toxicology analysis showed the combination of recreational cocaine and alcohol found in Val’s system would have increased risk taking behaviour.
Instead, he recorded a narrative conclusion, stating Val had died “having applied a ligature to his own neck, his intentions when doing so being unknown”. [J4MB emphasis. I refer you to the first sentence in this extract. The man sent a video of himself to his partner and a relative “indicating he was going to end his life”.]