Our thanks to Chloe for this. She writes:
Oh dear. How sad. What a pity. Never mind.
I think there’s a way to go for this to be true for a “legion” . As the piece says this 50/50 arrangement is only 3% of court mandated custody arrangements. And we simply don’t know for the private arrangements. I doubt there is a “legion” there either. Hopefully it may influence divorce as it is that nearly 80% are initiated by the wife. The best case scenario statistically for the welfare of the children is that their parents stick together. Hard but true.
I agree that sticking together is by far the best way for kids to grow up. But the feminist system gives too many incentives to women to call marriage quits and the courts play along in giving women nearly automatic custody. At the end of the day,the system is completely rigged against fathers. The problem is men were brainwashed by various dogmas and philosophies into believing that our current social norms are correct and it is okay to rob men of family and property.Men need to recognize that this system is rigged against them their current manners towards women are a part of the cause.
The lack of empathy here is staggering. The fathers don’t agonise over not seeing their children reach those little milestones? Just because men generally don’t get to see so much of their children during marriage – because someone has to earn the cash to pay for it all – doesn’t mean he doesn’t care. (I wonder if little Tali actually wanted her hair in ponytails?)
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